Dressing
well can make you appear confident, attractive, and put-together. Someone that
any firm would want to hire and any woman would want to date. First impressions
are long lasting and your attire is one of the first things noticed by others. With
a few pointers any guy can dress to
impress every day.
Personal Style.
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Dress
for the activities in your life, and the image you want to project. Dressing according
to trends can be fun, but if it’s not appropriate for what you’re actually
doing at the moment, it can make you look out of place.
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Be
true to the person that you are and the things that you actually do. If you don’t actually play sports, avoid looking
like you just walked off a basketball court.
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When
dressing for work or for school, respect the culture of that environment. Make
sure you are projecting the appearance of a professional, competent person who
is aware of where he actually is.
Dress appropriate for
the occasion.
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If
you're going to a job interview wear either business casual or business formal
attire. It's better to over-dressed than under-dressed for an interview.
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For
professional networking events, industry conventions, or formal dinners, invest
in a good suit. Choose a darker, classy color for increased versatility; grey,
dark blue, and black are excellent choices.
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You
can wear a t-shirt of a band you like, or a little bit of camo if that reflects
your interests, but always work it into your outfit so it looks like it’s in
context.
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For
formal occasions, don’t try to get away with being underdressed. Show that you
respect the event, and are involved in the moment. Dressing up will make you
look more involved, approachable and confident.
Your personality.
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Don’t
try to be anything that you’re not. It is important that your clothes bring out
who you really are. Just make sure that you’re not wildly inappropriate or
projecting an image that doesn’t do you justice.
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Dressing
well does not mean that you have to pay a whole lot of attention to fashion or
be aware of all the trends or that you have to follow a lot of rules for
tailoring and “what every well-dressed man should have”. You don’t have to have
a classic button-down oxford shirt in your closet.
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If
you are a casual, quiet, no-nonsense kind of guy, it’s perfectly acceptable to
have a simple wardrobe with just a few, well made, basic items.
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If
you like to make a statement, it would make sense to have that reflected in
your clothes. Just exercise a little restraint to make sure you don’t go
overboard.
Pick your statements
carefully
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Dressing
well means showing that you are comfortable being yourself, not hiding behind your
clothes.
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It’s
okay to wear clothes that reflect your interests, but avoid being a walking advertisement
for a brand, a sports team, or musicians.
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Avoid
wearing shirts that display offensive or sarcastic statements. You will be more
attractive if you project a positive image to the world.
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Try
not to look like you’re wearing a costume or uniform. Don’t dress all in camo
if you’re not presently hunting or in the middle of actual combat.
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If
there is a celebrity you admire, it’s perfectly fine to use them as
inspiration. Just make sure that you take your own activities and physique into
consideration.
Good Quality Clothes
that Fit Well
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Learn
what clothes suit your body. You don’t need to have an ideal body, clothes can
make a big difference in how your body looks, and can give the illusion that
you are taller or thinner than you are.
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Think
of dressing as creating an optical illusion. Look at the lines and shapes your
clothes make on your body and consider how they relate to your best
proportions.
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The
ideal masculine proportion is tall, wider at the shoulders and narrower at the
hips. Take an honest look at how your body matches up to this ideal, and look
for clothes that hide and accentuate the right parts.
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It’s
ok to play with these proportions a bit, depending on the occasion and your
social group. Just be conscious about how your clothes make your body look, and
think about how to compromise good proportion with fashion statements.
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Hip
hop clothes, for example, tend to be a lot baggier, and can make a guy look bottom-heavy.
Hipster clothes might make you look skinny. If this is the image you want to
project, and you’re not going to a formal event or an office, that’s fine.
Your fit is more than
just your size
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Clothing
sizes are average measurements set to determine sizing and fit so they can accommodate
many people. Individual people, however,
usually have bodies that are a bit different.
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The
fit is the most important aspect of any article of clothing. No matter how cool
the style is, if it doesn't fit you, do not wear it.
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Notice
how the clothes you try on make your body look, and be flexible when it comes
to size. In one store you may be a medium, but in another you may be a large.
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Remember
that cotton clothing will shrink a small amount the first time you wash and dry
the fabric. If you plan on drying your cotton clothes, look for sizes that are
slightly too big to accommodate shrinkage. If you dry clean certain items, you
won't have to worry about it.
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Find
brands that cater to your body type. You will probably find that some brands
and stores tend to fit you better than others, and it’s a good idea to shop
mainly at those stores.
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Find
a good tailor. Often clothes off the rack simply don’t fit, but can be made to
fit with simple adjustments. Many good stores provide tailoring services at
discounted rates if you buy from them.
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For
shirts, the seam at the beginning of the sleeve should start right where your
shoulder ends. The length of the shirt should extend beyond the belt but not
beyond the buttocks.
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A
good shirt will fit with the shoulder seam on the curve of the shoulder, and
the cuff stopping just before the curve of the hand (where the hand meets the
wrist).
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For
pants, the waist should fit you comfortably right above the hips, if you can
put 2 fingers in the waist band, then its usually the perfect fit. The pant leg
should extend down at least to the top of your shoe, but not to the ground.
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For
shorts, choose a slightly wider leg than you would on a pair of pants. Shorts
should stop somewhere between the top and middle of the knee.
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European
cut shirts are different from American cut. The European cut is a little
slimmer and more form-fitting along the sides, while American cut is a little
baggier, allowing for more room.
The right colors
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The
color of your clothes reflects onto your skin, eyes, and hair, and depending on
your particular features, some colors will be more flattering than others.
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Colors
can also improve your mood, and wearing colors that are a bit trendy can help
you look current.
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Experiment
with different colors, and find the ones that suit you best. A good color
should make your skin look healthy, not pale, blotchy, or sickly. Your eyes
look clear and bright, not bloodshot or tired.
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If
you have blue or green eyes, try wearing a blue shirt or tie to bring them out.
Some shades of red or brown might “cancel out” your eye color and make you look
tired.
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If
you have fair skin and dark hair, you might consider wearing clothes that
compliment this contrast. Wearing a lot of tans or khakis might make you look
“washed out.”
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The
colors you wear should make you feel happy and at ease. Pay attention to how
the colors you wear make you feel. Also, if you’re not comfortable wearing a
particular color, don’t wear it, even if it‘s trendy or the color of your
favorite team.
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Some
people love wearing bright colors like yellow and orange, but they might make
other people feel self conscious.
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You’ll
probably notice when you go shopping that there are some colors that are
popular for a season, such as fluorescents or mustard yellows. Some up-to date
color in your wardrobe is good, but always buy colors that make you feel and
look good, regardless of the trends.
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Some
colors are considered classic and never go out of style, such as brown, black,
khaki, gray, and navy blue. These are great colors to use, but again, consider
your skin tone and how you feel while wearing them.
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Buy
the pieces you wear everyday and expensive pieces in these colors. That way
they will be versatile and you can wear them for a long time.
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Remember
that even though these colors are “neutral” they can still be either flattering
or unflattering on you. For example, black looks too severe on some people.
Wear the highest
quality clothes you can afford
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Choose
high quality materials and sturdy construction. This is especially true for
basic pieces like pants and more formal pieces that you expect to wear for a
long time.
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You
don’t necessarily have to spend a lot of money on clothes, but always look for
quality. Plan to spend more money on more important pieces, and less money on
trendy items or things you will wear through quickly, such as T-shirts.
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Second-hand
stores are a great source of high quality items. Also, buying from an expensive
brand doesn’t necessarily guarantee quality. Use your best judgment when
picking clothes no matter where you shop.
Don’t skimp on
accessories, especially shoes.
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Often,
the difference between looking put-together and looking cheap is in the
details. High-quality accessories can make even simple clothes look great.
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While
it may seem feminine, having a variety of shoes will help you dress
appropriately for different occasions. Varying shoes day-to-day helps keep your
look fresh, and your shoes will last longer.
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Sneakers
are great for the casual, sporty look. However, try to stay away from wearing
athletic sneakers all the time, unless you want to look like a teenager.
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Black
formal shoes are a must for more formal occasions. While they're expensive,
they're a great investment to make, especially if you take care of them. Try
not to get formal shoes with a square or too-pointy toe: they won't be classic
forever.
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Desert
boots or chukkas straddle the line between casual and formal, perfect for those
nights out on the town when you want to spiff up your wardrobe without going
overboard. Go for a nice neutral color like sand, brown, or grey.
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If
your shoes look cheap or are uncomfortable this can bring down the whole
outfit. Badly fitting shoes can also affect your posture and mood, which
definitely detracts from your overall presentation.
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For
formal occasions, always look for a great tie. This can add a lot of style to
an ordinary suit.
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Be
careful of hats and caps, and make sure they are well-made and appropriate.
Wearing a cap backwards never looks classy. Also be aware of how a hat will
make your hair look if you plan on taking it off.
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Wear
jewelry sparingly. You don't want to look like Mr. T, or have more jewelry on
than any of the ladies in the room, but a nice watch and some cufflinks can
definitely help your look.
Look Confident
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Be
comfortable, but not sloppy. If you are uncomfortable, people can tell, and it
makes you less attractive. However it might be comfortable to wear sweatpants,
a baggy t-shirt, and running shoes all the time, it makes you look lazy and
unkempt.
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There
are plenty of well-dressed clothes that are also comfortable. Making style as
well as comfort a priority when choosing your clothes is very possible.
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Tuck
in your shirt, unless it’s a t-shirt. You may hate tucking in your shirt, but a
tucked-in shirt makes it look like you care about your appearance. Don’t try to
hide your gut by keeping your shirt un-tucked--a tucked in shirt actually makes
you look thinner.
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If
clothes are made from a comfortable material but are still uncomfortable, this
may be an issue with the fit.
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Always
plan for the weather. If you’re sweaty or shivering, you won’t look well
put-together.
Bad hygiene or
posture can ruin even the best outfit.
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You
must always be clean, well groomed, and holding yourself up straight.
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Have
a good grooming routine. Smelling bad or looking dirty or sweaty is never
attractive.
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Don’t
wear too much cologne. A little is good, but too much is repellant.
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Get
a haircut that is flattering and up-to-date. A good haircut should complement
the shape of your face. A good hair stylist can help you choose one.
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Make
sure your clothes are clean, ironed (if necessary), and in good repair.
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Don’t
slouch, fidget, or have an overly exaggerated walk. Your clothes will look
better if you carry yourself with ease and confidence.
Make being well
dressed a priority anytime you leave your home.
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You
never know who will see you, and you should always strive to make the best
impression.
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One's
attire is one of the first things noticed by others, and these first
impressions are long-lasting.
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You
never know when you will run into the person of your dreams, a potential
employer, or a local news crew looking to do a story on your life.